See the patterns you bring into every relationship.

The same arguments, the same distance, the same feeling of not quite being understood. This Spark relationship test looks at how you attach, communicate, and handle conflict, so you can spot the loop instead of living inside it.

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When you take this test, you'll learn:

About the Spark Relationship test

At Spark, we think better relationships start with understanding your own side of them. This check takes about 3 minutes and covers attachment, conflict style, emotional expression, and what you need to feel secure. When you finish, you get a clear read on your relational patterns and what to practice next.

Frequently Asked Questions

No. It's a self-reflection tool based on attachment research, not a diagnosis or a verdict on your relationship.
Not at all. The questions are about your patterns, which show up in friendships and family relationships too.
You get a personalized breakdown of your attachment and conflict style, plus specific things to practice — inside the Spark app.